What does it mean to be a real man in today's world?
In today's world it's hard to define the term "real man". Stereotypically the real man is a strong man whose quest is to protect his family and care for it. He has a good paid work, so his wife can just take care of kids. He doesn't have feelings like sadness and for sure would never cry. But that is only a stereotype. Not all men can, or want to be like this. A lot of them would still say that they are real man and theoretically they would be right, since their gender is male and they are real. That's why I think the only defininition of the "real man" is your own definition. Everybody can have their own definition depending on their culture, how they were taught as a child or anything else really.